Relationships
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LIFESTYLE
Finances in relationships; whose responsibility is it?
Money is a major concern in any relationship. Many relationships and even marriages have ended because of money. Whose responsibility is it? The man or the woman? Or both? A friend of mine once told me that finances are an integral part of a relationship and that if a couple can get it right with their finances, they will get…
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A Man will only lead the woman he wants to
Many a times, women struggle in relationships waiting for a man to commit and do right by her. We see women going far and beyond for a relationship to ‘work’. Question is, do you, as a woman, know what your place is in that relationship? God did not say that the man is head and the woman is the neck…
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If He Asks You How Many Exes You Have, The Answer Should Always Be Two
Recently a friend sent me this incredibly hilarious audio of a guy offering advice in rule form to women on how to handle men- from boyfriends to sponsors in 2020 in general. Rule number 15 states that when a woman is asked by the current catch how many men she’s been with, the standard answer should be two no matter…
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The Subtle Struggles of Women under the ‘Woman Empowerment Mantra’
We live in an era that has seen more feminists, egalitarians and those who have no idea about what they believe in, voice concerns as to how much the woman in this modern society has been or is not empowered enough
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Get a Life Before You Get a Man
The mistake most of us do is get into relationships and forget ourselves. And for some of us who are messed up one way or the other, we hope a man will fix the empty places in us. Girl, work on yourself before you get a man. Be the best version of you. Let the man who graces your amazing…
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Part 1-3: Justine M3 (Mind, Munshi, Musyoka*)
PART 1 I wanted him for me. It had nothing to do with how physically he looked but everything to do with his mind. We met on Facebook. I don’t remember our initial conversation but I texted him first after seeing his post on my page. Something about his update tagged at me. His name was, Justine M, a law…
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Her Secret – Part 5,6,7 & 8
NOTE: This is a continuation of the story Her Secrets, Part 1,2,3, and 4. If you didn’t read it, you might have to read it before continuing with this one. Part 5 She got into the house around 9.30 pm. She had gone to buy foodstuff with some of the money. There hadn’t been any food to eat the next day.…
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I SALUTE YOU
To the woman who takes it all from a man, I salute you. I salute you for turning a blind eye when he cheats. I salute you for taking all the beatings and still say I love you with a straight face. I salute you for always covering up all his faults by making excuses for him. You know when…
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The Devil wears Prada
” So is the bastard cheating on me?” she implores looking at me directly in the eye. I hesitate briefly and draw a breath.Shucks women can ask the most mundane of questions and then they can ask questions that pierce right through the threads of the very lies you sell them. I like Vicky*, I have known her for what?…
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Bedroom Matters: When a woman encounters roadblocks in bed
I have been crucified for my lusty thoughts and actions in the bedroom more times than I can count. I have come to learn that most men, are scared of a woman who is wanton and open about her sexual preferences. But if they only knew the havoc they create because of that… A good example is my boyfriend. You…
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One Night Stand!
Part 1 “50, 50, Wanye na mbele ya Wanye!”, the conductor shouted. I was at Prestige stage along Ngong Rd. Music blared in the background as cars horned all over. I had a date. More like a fuck date in Satellite. It was my first day going there. And I only had directions to take me. He couldn’t be bothered…
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